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Fighting with your inner self

HI, I know its quite late to come back but you know what everybody's life is going on track as they want sometimes I have to make sure that the one I am fighting with is worth or not. But what happens when you find out that this time you are not fighting with other, you are fighting with yourself where your soul asking you to carry on but your mind stops you because its creating cracks in your life. One day you will end up filling those cracks even though you know they are for good. Yes, I am fighting a tough fight with my soul because the decisions of my life affects everyone related to me.  No one understands you when you are doing the right thing for yourself but if you want to live the life you have to go against the society. And trust me, it takes a lot to do that because there you have to fight with yourself and choose between the mind and the soul. It doesn't mean you cannot do that of course you can but only when you don't care about the freaking world. People aroun...

CHANGE- GOOD OR BAD

  It is hard to believe but the only truth of life is – we are not gonna be alive forever! People come and go but the one thing which is constant is the change with us. Yes, the change is constant because it is the need of time. You will suffer from many things which may destroy you for a point of time or break you badly but that is what gonna make you stronger. You will have to lose your favorite person or the closest one someday, but it doesn’t mean you will give up for your life. It makes you stronger and you will learn how to be alone with you and their memories. What you choose for you never happens for you! You think it’s a joke and one day it will end with a laugh but No, everyone here is only to go back to the world where they are from. Don’t make attachments because it only hurts and make you weaker. You will do everything for that person to stay with you forever but life has some other plans which are not according to you. Take it as a challenge and try to make the ...

COMFORT ZONE!

The comfort zone! The most haunted thing in a person's life i guess because this is where a person becomes dependent on others or tomorrow. Well, I think comfort zone is what makes you unsuccessful most of the time. You are always seeing for it to be happen itself but the thing is if you really want the life to be according to you then you have to come out of your comfort zone. It's the rule of life!  You are not going to achieve what you are willing to within your comfort because it makes you lazy, dependent, unconfident or you can say uncapable. When you know what you want to do in your life and if you are passionate about it that you have to do it at any cost then you will not face any big difficulty to come out of you comfort zone but if you are losing your confidence on yourself it means you are not trying to come out. See the way is hard, every body knows that but the person who is capable of leaving their fun for a point of time then they are working hard. Sometimes peop...

Failure- The fear!!

 It is strange to know that mostly people blame others or there problems for their failures, but you have to be clear with it that you are the reason of your success and your failure too. There is no one behind you except the god so don't blame others for whatever is happening with you. God knows what is good and what is bad for you. Its not by chance it is well planned for you. The fears you have inside you regarding your failures are nothing but just your self made anxiety to tackle your failures. Failures are good thing to understand yourself and analyze your mistakes. Sometimes it happens with us that our fear makes us this much weak that we fear to face failures and thus the result is - suicide. i don't know why people do suicide? Is there nothing which can make u feel value able? Don't you blame yourself then for hurting your parents? Look, fears are okay until they don't overcomes you but when u feel that it is what controlling you, face them! I myself faced many...

Life - It is going on!!

There is nothing which can stop with time. The only thing is where you lie in your life. People come and go but what stays is you with your life ahead. You should be confident at times when you see your motivation coming down. You are the only one who can stop and start your life with give up or at a new way, respectively. Sometimes situation doesn't go according the way we want, it seems everything is happening wrong and you should give up now. But at that you have to be strong enough and be confident that if you are with yourself nothing can stop you. Ups and downs are the brothers of your they will come along with you everywhere at every situation, you have to fight them. The day will come when you will see your dreams coming true in front of your eyes. Trust yourself that if you have seen it you can do it as much better as you think of it, the need is to be confident amd stay positive. Look positivity doesn't means that you are looking upto the things in a manner that it wi...

A Good Start

 Hello friends,  Well, I think it was a long gap between us but sometimes distance is much better than the things which are closer. People sometimes lose themselves when they get hurt or demotivated and sometimes leaves the way they are on but i think this is not really they should do. Everything is not gonna be perfect in your life with you, there are downs when you feel nothing and you might stop everything there but what if u find that it could have been better if you had have started that with a new start. Life goes on with lots of tackles between but what we have to do is to start with a good one. Doesn't matter whats going on, where you are and how it would go you just have to start the thing with a new good hope.  Failures are there in everyones life but the one who knows how to fight and start again are the winners of their life. So don't worry that you've got failed and you'll not get the second chance. Just close your eyes, feel yourself that you have the pote...

What if you are happy but alone

Hello guys , i think its been a little late to come back but i think sharing my own experience with you guys is all what i want now. Usually when people wishes us on whatever be the occasion they say stay happy or be happy etc etc etc and we stay happy, no doubt. But there are moments when we are alone. We are happy, we have everything(a good job, a good family, very good friends) but still we feel alone sometimes. What is this for? So, it can be anything. It may be the memory you are remebering or the memory you are creating just keep a point in your mind that you are alone to make it. Like if you among with your friends try to make memories as much as you can thinking like you are alone because when you think like that you do something very different may be weird but that makes you happy later. Normally, people in front of others shy to say something, they are shy to enjoy even they don't even try to get frank just because they(others) are watching you. Let me clear this, you are...

Smile- The Most Precious

 Look, the day will be boring enough to you when you don't smile. Smile creates an positive vibes in you and the little bit you stretch your lips with an downward horizontal"C" it makes you and the day both joyful. Usually people avoid smiling when they are in little problem but they don't know that the reason of their problem is that they are not taking it with a smiling face. A smile can change your problem into fun until you are not ready to see it through that way. Smiling face is a pleasure for u and the another one too who looks at you. So just don't care about the ups and downs of the life...take a deep breath and smile it can make your day happy. Stay happy, keep smiling

Trust

 Well guys , Talking about today's world , nobody can easily trust anyone because people are not able to make that trust equivalent to the end. Like if you really trust someone very close to you and they hurt you it breakes you deeply. You must know trust is what hurts most when it breaks and you cannot trust someone easily. Honestly, people don't care about you so you should not care about people. Trust the person who care for you cuzz he/she is the only one who is right for your trust. So just never give up on your own, trust the person who cares you and never let anyone break you. Life is full of surprises try to live them, try to feel them. Trusting someone is not easy but when done once it feels like you are complete because you have someone to share, to laugh with and to be happy with. So, friendss just don't care about the world, just don't let anyone to break you and most important trust your loved ones and make them trust you so that they can share them with y...

Opportunity

  Helloo guyzz, It is also like an opportunity that i am able to share my views with you guys. I was told to do it it was my decision that i want to share my thinking and keep a good contact with you guys. Opportunity is a situation or circumstance which you get to complete your dreams but the point is you must know what and when you are getting the opportunity. It is the way which takes you right to your aim. Try to understand which way can take you up to your aim because there are opportunities which can be right or wrong means that can either take you to the right way or the wrong way. So its upon you how you see the way and how you understand that you are going in right direction. So, whenever you get an opportunity, first think about it and then if you find it right one go with it. Try to make the way enjoyable because the path is harder but interesting and you will learn to find your good opportunity. Have a good luck! Stay happy, keep smiling

Inspiration

  Woww..Inspiration! Whenever we listen to this word or see this word instantly our mind thinks of the person who always inspire you. So, how do you know that who is inspiring you? First of all, we should know the meaning of inspiration. It is a feeling, a motivation or we can say that its a type of our inner power which we feel when we see someone as an inspiring personality. Now, it is not important that every inspirational story inspires you. You are inspired only by those one's through which you feel yourself connected. Sometimes at someplaces we get low or can say that you are at that position to look up to the things positively at that moment you must think about your inspiration. It creates a movement of a fairy wave in your body where u can feel the change by seeing yourself being inspired. You can work hard but sometimes there are moments when you feel low and demotivated may be either it is stress or thinking, so at that time you must think that there is a door waiting fo...

Failures - The hardest way to the success

A very cool evening guyzz Today i think i am gonna talk about my own life's biggest lesson which taught me that success is meaningless until you've not taken the taste of failure. No, i am not saying that everyone should fail but it makes a person responsible to value his/her success. Failure is important in everyone's life because it somewhere makes your success more pleasing. I failed many times at many points of my life but the coming up from those failures is what matters, like if you are really mad about your dreams then you are capable enough to fight those failures , to learn from those failures and to start again by analysing your mistakes. Your journey is full of troubles, obstacles, ups and downs, failure and don't know what more but if you are honest with your dreams these things cannot pull you down. Failures are good because they make the success more sweeter and happier and that is what we want to achieve. So, i think we should never lose hope and never gi...

Attitude

 Attitude(The way to react on things) Hello friends, I am little confused that how to react on the thing where you are unknown about the end. Simply, when we are frustrated from something and start reacting on other things, we somewhere creates a negative effect on others. No, i am not talking about your behaviour but the way you are seen by others is different like somebody shows you a thing on which he or she wants your reaction to be special but you reacts badly due to your frustration so it normally influence your character. It shows your attitude is negative, here, negative means ego. Yeah, the negative version of attitude is called ego. Attitude is not wrong but if it becomes the result of your frustration then it is totally bad. You must know how to react on things where you are not sure about how it gonna be end. So keep your attitude positive and look up to the things clearly and think before showing any reaction.

Passion

Guys, well its my first blog and i think i'll make u comfortable enough with it. So thinking about the word "PASSION" , what does it really mean. Like is it something which a person only wants to do as an responsibility which you really do when your parents asks you to follow the same career they do. Nope! Its not that. Passion means you are going with the talent you are born with like some people loves music so they try to become singer, some loves acting so they start their struggle into that field etc and etc. And its pleasing to do that until your parents are supportive but what if your parents avoid your passion, your talent in front of their need to make you a respectable doctor or engineer or lawyer whatever. Yaa okay! Its fine to dream for their children that what they really want them to be but more important is what you want to be in your life. Because its your life and there is nothing to do with your parents choice because you have to live it not them. Passion...